My wonderful grandmother passed away this week. While it is not unexpected since she was 94, it is still sad to see her go as she was amazing and an example to me my whole life. Some of my fondest memories:
-She was the definition of class. Her home was always beautiful and she always did things the proper way. I remember learning how to set a table, make a bed, and treat guests at her home. She treated grandkids like honored guests and even a cookie was served on a plate with a napkin. She also knew how to dress. She always looked impeccable and I was so proud when she came to my functions. I always had the classy grandma.
-She was so talented. I loved to hear her play her violin and the piano. She and my young cousins played at my wedding and that is a treasured memory for me. I also loved the story of her playing old love songs for the alzheimer's wing at Brighton Gardens just a few years ago. She always used her talents to bless others. I have not inherited that musical talent but have admired it in many of my cousins.
-She valued education-Always a reader, I remember as a child being read to all the time in her home. Grandpa was known as the big reader, but she was not far behind. She always had a book and it was a favorite gift to get. She was also very educated and interested in my educational pursuits. When I got married I had a semester left of school,I remember her worried I would not finish my degree. I did of course and always admired her for obtaining a college degree at BYU in the middle of the depression. It might have been easier for her to drop out, but she knew how important it was.
-She loved us all equally-She never played favorites but wanted all her grandchildren to feel she loved them the same. One of the best examples of that is that when she was selling her home she gave away a lot her and grandpa's possessions. All the grandkids wanted grandpa's gavel. Of course there was only 1 or 2. So, to be equal, she had Grandpa's gavel reproduced and gave one to each of us at Christmas. She did not want anyone to be left out. I have the gavel on my piano and it reminds me of both Grandma Ann and Grandpa John.
-She was an example of a great marriage. She really loved Grandpa. I know it has been hard the last 14 years without him and I am so glad they are now together. I treasure the portrait that Grandpa painted of me and hung in their home for years and now hangs in mine. I know it would give her great pleasure that I love looking at it. It just reminds me of Grandma and Grandpa and their love every time I walk by.
-She was so kind-I never heard her say a bad thing about anyone. She always gave people the benefit of the doubt. She was never one to gossip. I wish that I had that quality.
I love you Grandma. Thank you for all the support you have shown. I especially felt your concern and love through our many trials with Lilly. Your prayers were felt and your strength helped me get throught it with courage. I named my little daughter Lillian in honor of your dear sister. I remember all the stories about what a beautiful, strong, smart, and kind person she was. My hope is that Lilly can live up to her namesake and live up to the things you have taught me. I will see you soon. Tell Grandpa hi!
1 comments:
Totally love the BLOG! I posted last Saturday about her....read it if you haven't! She would be honored that you blogged about her! Love ya, see you tomorrow!
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